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Wednesday, August 06, 2008, 8:58 PM
Possibilities... My friend actually asked me, "Am I a good boyfriend?". Its obvious that the answer would be positive but he kept reiterate that he does not deserves to be with his girlfriend. From his situation, I can clearly sees that his low self-esteem keep obstructing his ways to change his mindset. And his girlfriend is afraid of losing him to other girls. I know everyone in r/s do experience such situation and keep thinking that he/she is not good enough. But since he had already chosen you, the answer is clearly stated. I'm not a counselor nor someone who talks big. Giving relevant answers and my point of view is the only way I could help. Everybody make mistakes including me. Every relationship has its own ups and downs. I don't deny that some problems that occur might be remorseful and sometimes I feel like giving up the relationship but I ponder again. Ponder how hard I need to get to this relationship. To ponder again the obstacles that I've went through was not an easy road. Since I've already went through a long way, why should I give up halfway? Anyway, going to sleep now.good nite everyone =) and and tmr will be our..... 11mnthsary. :)  Food for thoughts: What you want in relationship? |